A Question To Shiva

Few days back, one girl asked Shiva that She feels no one understands her. She wants to do best for everyone, still everyone is against her. She always has problems at home and in the office too. Shiva asked her, if she understands herself. She said of course I know myself. Shiva said you know yourself but do you understand yourself and she was confused. She wants to do good for everyone, but why does she want to do good? When you are asking someone to do something, do you want best for him or do you want him to appreciate you? She said that but ultimately i am doing good for everyone. No, your deep intention is to do good for yourself and what reflects in our action is very small part of it. What we feel is the major part of who we are. You are into conflict yourself for everything inside you. You want to do something, you want something and you say something else. Till the time your every word, thought, feeling and action is in alignment, you will never have peace inside you. Till the time you will not have peace inside you, you will always have conflicts around you in everything you would do because this is what you are creating. So what should I do? Then Shiva Said Write down all the things. Write down all your thoughts. Write down all your feelings. Write down all your intentions. Write down all your actions. Write down everything without judging. Why should I write down, when i know them already. You know them, but you are not aware of them. Human mind is very intelligent. It would try to cancel everything without you being aware of it and you would lose your real thoughts or let's say you would bury them. It would disguise everything under the wrap of nobility. Don't judge anything good or bad. Just be aware of all of them so that you can have a clarity and then start sorting them out. Ask yourself why do I desire this? What am I gaining from this? Is it important to have my way all the time? What would happen if I do not have everything as per me? What would I lose if my expectations are not met? What am I gaining in all this? What should I leave behind? What are the things I actually want in myself? Why do i have so much resentment? Question all your intentions, feelings, desires, thoughts and actions. Once you get the clarity inside you, you will get the clarity everywhere. After two months of working on herself and on her thoughts, she was able to get into harmony with herself. She started liking herself and she also started liking everyone else. When she started liking everyone else inside herself, then everyone also got into harmony with her. You cannot create peace around you till the time you do not have peace inside you. You cannot be happy if you wait for something to happen. You can be happy if you are happy now and then you will have happiness everywhere. Whatever you have inside you, you create around you. If you want to have harmony around you, create harmony inside you. Be at peace yourself and everything else would be peaceful too. If you have love inside you, you will have love around you. Be happy, be peaceful, be love.